Many people have questions about how to have sex, but it isn't always easy to get good advice. This page aims to answer some of the most common questions that people ask about how you have sex.It depends what you mean by having sex. Having sex can sometimes mean a number of different sexual activities, but usually it means sexual intercourse. The most common definition of sexual intercourse is an act that involves a man putting his erect penis inside a woman's vagina. Sexual intercourse might also be used to refer to sex acts between two men or between two women.
After the first time, sex should become more comfortable. The vagina is very stretchy and will usually accommodate a penis (even a large one) with ease. However, a woman may experience pain when having sexual intercourse if her vagina does not produce enough natural lubrication. Extra vaginal fluids are usually produced when a woman becomes sexually excited to allow the penis to enter the vagina easily. If a woman is tense or rushing when she has sex, her vagina may not become moist enough to allow the penis to move in and out smoothly. Stress can also cause the muscles in the vagina to involuntarily tense up, making penetration difficult and painful. The best way to ensure pain free sex is for both partners to relax and take their time.
I’ve been back and forth on this topic with friends since we were old enough to know that we wanted more than just physical intimacy and that we wanted relationships. As we get older and begin to look at the women we meet as potential partners, we begin to weigh many factors before jumping into bed with them. It does not mean we forget about those fun nights when we offer shots to the girls next to us in hopes of seeing the inside of the cute one’s apartment. It simply means that when we are really going after someone, it requires more tact when looking to get the physical things brewing. The questions is: Is there a perfect time?
1. Set the scene.
Think dim lighting, lit candles, and a sexy soundtrack. Maybe even a glass of wine if you're up for it. Be sure to have on hand anything and everything you might need once you're in. In this case, I'd set aside waterproof lube since H2O washes away any natural lubrication.
2. Find the perfect temp.
Not too hot, not too cold, and remember: the longer you're in there, the cooler the water becomes. Start off with a bit warmer than you want it, and it will be ideal by the time you start getting it on.
3. ... And the right water level.
Too much water in this case will make for splashing and slipping. Ideally—and if you don't have waterproof lube on hand—you'll want it low enough that you can maneuver in and out of it. It's always best to have options, and you can always add more water later, or drain it if need be.
4. Assume your position.
Here are two carnal positions that work well in this scenario: One is where your man lies back, and you straddle him while facing away from him. Then, place your hands on the bottom of the tub to steady yourself and ride him with his hands holding on to your hips. If that's uncomfortable for your knees, you can try sitting on his lap and wrapping your legs around his body.
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